
If you've followed this here blog for any length of time, you know what Dick Van Dyke has meant to me. Loved him on TV. Loved him in movies, I saw him on stage a number of times and loved him on stage. And I've never encountered or heard anyone who said, "That guy? Can't stand him!" How many other performers can you say that about?
Much of my life has been about interacting or sometimes working with people whose work I loved when I was a kid, whether it was on TV or in comic books or…well, anywhere. A few (very few) brought to mind the not-always-valid advice of "Never meet your heroes." I can count the number of those who disappointed me on two hands and still have a finger or two left to flip them off. I would have a much sourer outlook on life if Dick Van Dyke had been one of those disappointers.
Today, the world celebrates not so much that he made it to a hundred but that it reminds us how much he's meant to so many of us. Just The Dick Van Dyke Show alone made him important to my generation. I don't want to make this about me but I probably will. My life changed a lot for the better on Tuesday, February 2, 1965 when my parents and I went to see an episode of The Dick Van Dyke Show filmed. I wrote about that here and other places on this blog. I was exactly a month shy of thirteen years old that day and I already wanted to spend the rest of my life as a professional writer of something. After that date, I really wanted that something to include writing something like The Dick Van Dyke Show or at least The Alan Brady Show.
The first time I encountered Dick himself was years later in an elevator at NBC after I'd kinda achieved that goal — in no small part thanks to him. Of course, I had to tell him what I owed to him and that series. And of course, he couldn't have been nicer even though he was telling me how many hundreds of other writers had told him that. Later, when I got to know him better, he was still just as nice, still the Dick Van Dyke I wanted him to be.
I'm going to repeat a story I told here last year when he turned 99 and a photo that goes with it…

In 2013, there was a small dinner party noting the ninety-somethingth birthday of his co-star on The Dick Van Dyke Show, Rose Marie. A waiter at the restaurant took the above photo and the lady at the lower left is Arlene Silver, otherwise known as Mrs. Dick Van Dyke. If you're celebrating Dick becoming a centenarian, throw some thanks Arlene's way because she's highly responsible for getting him there. She takes wonderful care of that man, loving him exactly the way he deserves and needs to be loved and the feeling is obviously mutual.
You recognize the guy next to her and then next to him is Rose Marie. The two folks at the end of the table are Jeanine Kasun and Stu Shostak (another married couple, good friends of the Van Dykes) and then you have me and at lower right is Laraine Newman, who was my "plus-1" for the evening. I'm going to cut-and-paste from last year's post what happened at the end of the dinner…
Dick and I went out to give our parking tickets to the valet to get his car and Laraine's (she drove us) and as we were waiting, two women who were also waiting for a car were suddenly staring at Dick with one of those "Oh, he's someone famous" look. It took a moment for them to recognize who he was and, I think, also to accept the concept that he really and truly was who they thought he was. One said, "Oh, if you're who I think you are, I've always loved you." The other one agreed and Dick gave them both that great smile of his and said, "Well then, I hope I am who you're thinking of because I could use all the love I can get."
Their car arrived and as she tipped the valet, the first one told Dick, "I think you've already got more than anyone else." The other lady said, "Everyone adores you…everyone" and I just stood there thinking, "They're both right." Then as they drove off, clearly delighted with that little exchange, I asked Dick, "How often do you get that?" He replied, "I get it a lot and I'm always very grateful. Hell, I'm grateful when people recognize me and don't tell me how much they didn't like my accent in Mary Poppins."
That accent gets mentioned way more than it deserves and I think I know why. Because if you want to think of something negative to say about Dick Van Dyke, it's just about your only option.